After dating separation
In most divorces, there is a period after the marriage is over in the minds of the parties, but before the marriage is over in the eyes of the law.
This is a difficult period for both parties, because they're torn between two competing ideas: fidelity to the now-ended but not legally finished marriage, and equally strong desire to move on and start a new life.
I haven't even thought about dating at all so I don't understand how he can? It was only 2 months from our separation, before she had a BF, and 4 months before he was living with her.
Even though I had horrible feelings for her for what she did to me, it still tore me apart to see her get over it and have another man move in so quickly.
Getting backing to dating after separation or divorce can seem daunting for anyone.
If you are a single parent then your children are also going to play a part in the decisions that you make.
my husband and I are seperating after 12 years of marraige he is still living here in the home in the basement and I discovered by accident that he is having sexual relations with someone else he has male enhasement pills and condoms galore I think it has been going on all this time but we have only been seperated since April...
That would not be fair to the new interest, or to you. You can read my blogs and see some of my journey on the roller coaster called divorce. If infidelity/adultery — an intimate relationship with someone other than your spouse prior to separating — is an issue, then continuing a relationship with that same person after the separation can be used as evidence to prove adultery. Proof of adultery may affect alimony and child custody.